How do I get my daughter to think about the college search?
Friday, July 17th, 2009Dear Babs,
My daughter is starting her senior year, and I’m trying to help her get started with her college search. She really hasn’t done too much thinking about it. How should she begin? Is there anything I should look out for? Thanks.
-Hints for Helen
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Dear Helen,
Tell your daughter that discovering colleges really begins with discovering herself. It’s important for her to consider what kind of a person she is, what her future goals are, and what kind of environment she likes. Sound a little introspective? It should be. If you’re going to invest in 4 years of education, it better be at a college that suits who she is and what she wants out of life.
Try to get her started with some leading questions. Does she want to live close to home/her friends? Does she consider herself a city-girl, or does she love the outdoors? These questions will help her figure out where to start looking. Whether it’s in the neighbouring town or half-way across the country, it will help her get started.
The next step is to get her thinking about what she’s interested in, and what she might like to study. This is easier said than done. No one expects her to know what she wants to do with the rest of her life at 17, but having an inkling of her interests/talents will certainly help her out. If she absolutely hates math, than anything in the sciences should probably be ruled out. If she is a passionate reporter for her school paper, encourage her to apply to a school with a good communications program.
It can be hard to get a teenager to think about such big questions as “who am I” but it’s vital for their college search (as well as their future). Hopefully with a little prodding, your daughter will reflect on who she is and what she wants, and start to discover colleges are right for her.
Good Luck!
-Babs


















